Are you ready for some football?

For his birthday this year Caleb wanted to have a football party. This past season he was really into football and watched every game that he could. Especially Alabama football! So we decided he could invite all his friends and we would have a flag football game: Caleb's Crimson Tide versus the Cypress Longhorns! As we have several years in the past, we printed t-shirts for the boys instead of giving them a goody bag of stuff they never use. On the front was the logos and names of the two teams and on the back we put the number 8 because he turned 8. On Caleb's shirt and mine and Heath's we also put his name. They were a big hit with the boys and the whole day ended up being a blast.

I planned the party for the 21st which was the last Sunday of spring break.  In years past we have run into the problem of people being out of town for spring break but this year with the meet the day before, I knew most of the boys invited would be in town. Unfortunately after a week of gorgeous weather, it rained Saturday and a cold front blew through. On Sunday, winds got up in the 30 mph range and it was in the 50s. I think the wind chill brought it into the 40s though. Despite the weather we were going through with it. The sun was still shining and wind and a little mud was not going to deter a group of boys. 

In the days leading up to the party we bought all the party supplies and worked on the cakes. At Elizabeth's party we finished all of the cake so I decided to make two to make sure we had enough cake.

I made a football cake and a football field cake. I was quite proud of how they came out and they even tasted good too!
The day of the party we decided to move the cake and presents part into our garage instead of at the park where the game was. With the wind as strong as it was I figured it would be more bearable in the garage. So needless to say, the hours before the party we were busy cleaning the garage and the house.

Once the boys started arriving at the party, Heath and some boys from the youth group helping out, started an obstacle course for the boys. One boy from each team had to run through some cones, do five circles with their head on a bat, run and put on a uniform and throw a football before running all the way back. It was quite funny to watch!

This was Heath giving instructions before the obstacle course. I think this was one of the coldest birthdays Caleb has ever had. In past birthdays it has been quite warm by this time.

This is Matthew, one of Caleb's teammates, doing his circles on the bat.

After throwing the football, they had to go get it, run back, take off their uniform, and run all the way back to the start.

While we got the field marked for the game, we made all the boys do push ups!

These were the Cypress Longhorns huddling up for the first play for the game. Each one of the high school boys played quarterback for each team.

Caleb's Crimson Tide ready to play!

 A few action shots!

A great picture of the two teams after the game. Caleb's Crimson Tide was in the front and the Cypress Longhorns were in the back.

Cake time! The boys were starving after playing so the cake was demolished pretty quickly!

This picture was funny! We had all the boys from Caleb's gymnastics team line up and show off their abs!

Heath and I proudly wearing our shirts in honor of our 8 year old! How has the time passed so quickly?

 

Last but not least the boys signed an extra shirt so that Caleb can hang it in his room with the shirts from past birthdays.

All in all it was a great day! The boys had a super time and despite the cold and wind, it was still a beautiful day!

Maximum Horsepower Meet

The last few weeks have been busy with birthdays and spring break so I have not been updating recent events. We had another meet the 20th of March right here in Houston. It wasn't a big meet, just one more chance to get out in front of judges before states which is at the end of April. They didn't give individual awards, just team and they moved through the meet so fast that Heath missed half the events to video Caleb. He was first in the rotation and as soon as the team in front of us finished on the apparatus, they moved Caleb over even though our team hadn't finished. We were done in a little over an hour which is completely out of the norm! The lighting was awful so I didn't get a lot of good pictures but I will include some of the good ones. Overall the team won first place and Caleb did a great job.

I love this shot of the boys during the national anthem. I know I should have been paying attention to the anthem but I couldn't resist taking this picture.

This picture is hard to see but it is actually a great handstand. He is totally aligned with the pole behind him!

This is slightly blurry as I am still learning how to use my camera and get the best quality during action and no use of flash. But nevertheless I thought it was a good shot of him on pommel horse.

This is even blurrier but we talk about the mushroom a lot and I wanted you to see what it is. This is where he does his circles. In a meet he has to do 5 1/2 but until we went to Austin he wasn't hitting it. In the last couple of weeks he has gotten up to 15 in practice!

Here he is up on high bar showing off his strength!

Peace

I have had thoughts stewing in my head for the last couple of weeks and they seem to be starting to come together and make sense. I was thinking more last night and thought maybe I would try to put words to it today. Most of you that read my blog know that I had a miscarriage in January and beyond that you know that we felt God had led us to have another baby. If you don’t know that story you can read here. The first few weeks after the loss, I shed a lot of tears and asked God a lot of questions. I felt the loss to my core and ached to have Gabriel in my arms and not in heaven. My desire to try for another was strong and having to wait for the physical healing of my body seemed like an eternity. I remember lying in bed one night talking to Heath and hearing him say that maybe God doesn’t have plans for us to have another baby and I thought that was preposterous. How could God speak so loudly to me to have another child, take him away, and then not give us another one?

 

One of the things I have prayed constantly about is for God to give me peace. The peace to accept the loss of our child, the peace to wait on Him, the peace to know that He is in control and I am not, and the peace to move on in my life knowing that His plan is perfect. This week came the realization that He has given me that peace. It came quietly and without me realizing it was there. When I was wrapped up in the busyness of my life I didn’t notice it, but when I spent some time praying and in His word, I started making sense of some thoughts that I was having and realized that God had given me a total peace. A total peace that if I don’t ever have another child that I am ok with that. 

 The last couple of weeks I found myself thinking at different times (probably those moments when I was struggling with my kids!) that maybe I didn’t want more children. And then I would think, “Now wait a minute, God laid it on my heart to grow our family. Why would I be turning in the other direction?” Then I would pray for God to show me His will. Are we supposed to have more children or not? I didn’t feel like I was getting a clear answer either way, which was frustrating me because I hate feeling like I can’t make a decision. Then this week I finally linked everything together. God had provided me what I had been praying for. I wanted to be at peace with His will for my life. I wanted to be at peace with having children or not. I wanted to be at peace with losing Gabriel. 

With those thoughts of being content with the children He has given me, I realized I was at peace. Whether I have anymore children I am at peace. With the uncertainty of what the right decision was as far as trying again, God was saying, “Leave it in my hands.” I don’t know what His plan is for us and I don’t know if kids are in that equation, but I am content. I don’t need to be in control. I don’t need to plan out my timetable. Whatever God’s will is I am at peace with it. If God has 1, 2, or 3 more kids planned for us, God’s will be done. If He has none, God’s will be done.

 With the peace of what’s ahead, He also gave me a peace over what has happened. God told us that we were not done and that He had another child for us. Gabriel is that child and despite the fact that we never met him face to face, He is our child and he is forever in our hearts. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of him and I feel privileged to call him mine. I feel like he has added to my life and to our family and I look forward to the day that I will meet him in heaven. What a blessing it is to look at such a heartbreak as a privilege! I am so thankful for God speaking to my heart and knowing what I needed to hear. 

I do not know what the future holds, but I do know that the loss of Gabriel drew me closer to my Lord and to my family. I am at peace with my loss and I am at peace with my future and with that comes an unspeakable joy; A joy that gets me up each morning and leads me to thank God for what He has done for me and what He will do in the days ahead. 

 James 1:2-3 ²Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, ³because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.

John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Psalm 29:11 The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.

Family friendly recipes

My friend from high school, Molly, who I have reconnected with on Facebook and follow her blog, has posted a recipe on her blog that we can link our blog back to. What ends up happening is that people who read her blog can link to mine and vice versa. If you are interested in a homemade and healthy pizza, click here. I am looking forward to making it because I have never made my own crust.
Molly went the extra mile and took pictures of her recipes as she made the pizza. Unfortunately I have not had the time to do that but I did include the picture of the final results of one of the recipes that I have included. Both the recipes that I am going to share are favorites in the Lockhart house. They are easy to make and relatively kid-friendly. Not quite as far as homemade pizza dough but easy and tasty.

Sloppy Joe Squares

1 lb of ground beef
1 can of sloppy joe sauce or packet mix
2 cans of 8 crescent rolls
1 cup of grated cheese

I only have to brown one pound of ground beef but if you have a large family or are having company, you may want to double the recipe. Also, the sloppy joe sauce is a personal preference. I usually use Manwich. After the meat is browned and the sauce has been added, open one can of the crescent rolls and spread it across a cookie sheet. Press together the seems. Spread the sloppy joe mix over the crescent rolls and then sprinkle the cheese over the mixture. Take the other crescent rolls and place that on top of the mixture and press the edges together. Bake at 425 degrees for 15 minutes or until lightly brown. I usually serve it with vegetables or salad.

Mexican Chicken Casserole

2 cups of cooked, diced chicken

1 can green beans

1 can corn

1 can cream of chicken soup

8 oz sour cream

1 cup of shredded cheese

2 tablespoons of taco seasoning

doritos

Sometimes to make this recipe quickly, I use the precooked bags of fajita chicken. Mix all the ingredients together except for the doritos. Crush the Doritos and spread them across the top of the casserole. Cook at 375 degrees for approximately 30 minutes. I serve this with fresh doritos as well because my husband likes to add more for the crunch. This recipe is great to make when you have to bring a meal to someone because it has everything in one dish and it is easy to double if you need a larger amount. 

So there are two recipes seen at the Lockhart dinner table. I actually haven't made them recently so I wouldn't be surprised if my family would be happy to see them soon.  

Where has the time gone?

How is it that my little baby girl is 5 now? She is such a blessing to our lives! Her big smile, her amazing hugs, her love of people and animals, her wild imagination, her individual personality, and the overall spirit about her blesses us everyday! I can't believe she is already 5 and so close to going off to Kindergarten. Of course I have my moments like most mothers do where I need a little break, but I will miss her puttering around the house with me, our trips to the grocery store, Target, and of course lunch dates at Chick-fil-a. I definitely need to soak in the next 6 months before she is off to school.

This year for her birthday she requested another party at Telge Park, her favorite park because of the big red slide. Because her birthday is in February, the weather plays an integral part in the planning. One day it can be snowing (this year anyway) and the next it is 70 degrees. Last year we had her party at the same park and the week before was gorgeous and then a cold front blew through and it was 45 degrees and extremely windy the day of her party. You can read about it here. This year I was careful and watched the weather forecast before sending out a last minute email inviting all her friends. God blessed my patience and the weather was picture perfect. Bright blue skys, 70 degrees, and a light wind. I thought it might be a little chilly because we held it in the morning but we were pealing off our sweaters almost immediately. All the kids arrived and enjoyed running around and playing. I am so thankful that two years in a row Elizabeth has chosen this kind of party because it is so simple and cheap! Needless to say, the party was a huge success and we could have spent the whole day out there!

I think this picture is classic Elizabeth. I was trying to catch her swinging and just as I snapped the shot she made this funny face, crossing her eyes!

If you looked back at last year's post, you would have seen a similar shot of all the kids on the slide except all bundled up!

Elizabeth even requested a homemade cake which is great on the budget! It is a good thing my kids like the cakes I make. It saves a lot of money!

A shot of some of the kids eating cake.

Elizabeth was very excited to get more Barbies and Polly Pockets and here she got a purse with kittens on it. She has carried it everywhere already.

Just before we left, Heath took the kids for a walk back on the trails through the woods. This is Elizabeth and Caleb and the 3 of the Richard girls.

It was a busy February with competitions and birthdays and now we are into March and a week away from spring break and two weeks from Caleb's birthday. We are in the planning stages for that so I'm sure I will be blogging about that soon. Time is flying and I am sure summer will be here before I can blink!